Traveling solo has been one of the most transformative experiences of my life. When I first started exploring the idea of solo travel, I didn’t jump straight into the deep end. Instead, I chose approachable destinations, such as Aruba, North Carolina, New York, and New Jersey. Each trip taught me something new. It built my confidence. It opened my eyes to the beauty of being comfortable with myself.

How I Got Started

New York and New Jersey were my stepping stones into solo city travel. Something about the hustle and bustle of New York City makes you feel alive and a _^little scared. I walked through Central Park, marveled at art in the MET, and treated myself to Lion King Broadway tickets. One night, I even had dinner at a cozy restaurant, which initially felt intimidating.

But I quickly realized how freeing it is to eat alone and completely savor the experience.

Closer to home, North Carolina was a surprising gem. I started in Raleigh, which is known for its artsy vibe and incredible finds. It felt empowering to navigate by myself, relying on my instincts and Google Maps. I also explored small towns, visited charming cafes, and discovered how rewarding it is to create a flexible itinerary.

North Carolina taught me the importance of preparation. This preparation includes packing layers for changing weather and keeping an emergency kit in the car. It also showed me the joy of leaving space for spontaneity.

Going International

Aruba was my first international solo destination. The island’s friendly atmosphere, beautiful beaches, and vibrant culture made it an ideal choice. I stayed at a cozy boutique Airbnb where the staff was an actual family. Every other morning, I’d grab my journal, find a quiet spot by the beach, and soak in the peacefulness. Exploring Aruba solo was the perfect balance of relaxation and adventure. I went to Eagle and Baby beaches and did a clear kayak photoshoot for my birthday. I tried local dishes and met other travelers who inspired me with their stories.

The key takeaway? Solo travel doesn’t mean you have to be alone all the time. It’s about embracing solitude when you want it and connecting with others when you’re ready.

Solo travel isn’t just about exploring new places; it’s about discovering parts of yourself you didn’t know existed. It’s about proving to yourself that you’re capable, resilient, and worthy of incredible experiences. If I can do it, so can you. The world is waiting—explore it on your terms!

Some Reasons You Should Consider Going Solo

• Leaving it all behind: Traveling alone means you are free of the baggage (anxieties) for a short time. You are also free to work on yourself.
• Testing out your comfort zone: When you stretch your boundaries by traveling solo, you increase your comfort level. You learn to handle a variety of situations. You become well-versed in uncomfortable scenarios and have conquered them.
• Exploring without distractions: Friends constantly ask you to take photos. They chat about their various concerns and interests. You could have avoided this simply by going alone. Need time to think alone? Don’t hesitate, go.
• Meet new people: No matter how much of a loner you think you are, you will make new friends. You might even get to keep a pen pal or two.
• Discover your true self: Who do you think you are when no one is looking? Find out alone on a solo trip, away from all the noise.
• Experience freedom: Being free of responsibilities gives a true sense of freedom. Many aim to achieve this feeling, even if it is just for a short trip.
• Growth: As you travel extensively and see the world solo, you return to your family and friends enriched. You gain more knowledge and culture. You become less ethnocentric.

Check out this blog article to learn more reasons why you should travel solo.

Tips To Help You Get Started

• Do Your Research: Familiarize yourself with the area’s culture, safety tips, and must-see attractions. Knowledge builds confidence.
• Start Small: Choose manageable destinations. Day trips or weekend getaways are great for testing the waters.
• Plan, but Don’t Overplan: Have a loose itinerary but leave room for spontaneity. Some of the best moments happen unexpectedly.
• Pack Light: You’ll thank yourself later when you’re not lugging a heavy suitcase around.
• Stay Connected: Share your plans with a trusted friend or family member and check in regularly.
• Trust Your Instincts. You can change your plans or walk away if something feels wrong.
• Embrace the Awkward: Eating alone or navigating a new place might initially feel strange. However, it gets easier with time. Focus on the joy of the experience.
• Be Open to Meeting People: Join group tours, chat with locals, or connect with other solo travelers online. You’ll be surprised by the friendships you can form.